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23 01, 2017

Are these five POGO traits sabotaging your writing?

By |2017-01-13T14:27:25-06:00January 23rd, 2017|Make Me Think Monday|1 Comment

A writing career has no policy and procedure manual, no checklist for success. Each day brings uncharted water.

The path to success can be an emotional roller coaster ride. Up one day. Downhill fast the next.

More than any other job, writers are in control of their destiny. At the same time, writers can be their own worst enemy. Unfamiliar with Pogo?

Pogo and his “swamp critter friends” are the anthropomorphic comic strip animals created by Walt Kelly in 1948. They philosophized and poked at social and political successes and follies in Kelly’s comic strip. Probably the most widely used Pogo quote is the one depicted in this poster from Earth Day in the 70s.

There are five traits, when exhibited, that can make a writer his own worst enemy. That’s why I dubbed them POGO traits.

  1. Too much time and energy focused on mimicking the writing and style of other authors.

The world already has Janet Evanovich, J.K. Rowling, Steven King, and Nora Roberts. Their success is their success.

You can’t copy and get there! Stop wasting your time.

  1. Preoccupation with following THE RULES.

Rules are very important. Absolutely.

Writing, on the other hand, is an art form that entails experimentation, innovation, and expansion. Once you have the basics down—things like POV, dialogue, setting, character, plot, theme, it’s time to trust your instincts and what works for your story.

  1. Buying into every new way to write or plot that’s suggested

Workshops, classes, and webinars are terrific for improving craft skills. BUT writing experts don’t always know what’s right for your writing process. Once you find the process that works best for you and your lifestyle, stick with it. 

  1. An inability to take criticism or believing everything anyone says about your story

Either of these positions can be fatal. Admittedly, surviving a brutal criticism or review isn’t for the fainthearted. As a writer, you need elephant hide and keen discernment to see the opinions expressed for exactly what they’re worth.

It’s strong writers who survive…and often produce better stories from hard critiques or bad reviews.

  1. Not writing

The procrastination parasite bites us all from time to time. Whether moved by the muse or not, a professional writer goes to the keyboard or grabs a pencil every day.

Promotion, social media, and marketing do cut into writing time. All of that is important for developing reader relationships. Balance is the key because gaining readership (aka success) ultimately comes from writing the next story.

Do you see POGO traits in yourself?  I admit I’m guilty of too many, too often.

I become my own worst enemy. Do you?

20 01, 2017

Tom Turkey 1, Chicken Wrangler Sara 1

By |2017-01-13T10:33:49-06:00January 20th, 2017|Miller Farm Friday|1 Comment

A blog by Chicken Wrangler Sara

My love/hate relationship with the turkeys continues.

For a while, Tom was roosting in the chicken coop.  Every night for several nights, I moved him to the turkey yard to be with Tina.  One night he was particularly aggravated by this and kicked and screamed like a toddler.  I wrangled him into the turkey yard with Tina and went inside.

An hour later Rachel looked at me and said, “Mom did you know you have a huge hole in your shirt?”

I looked down and there were actually several holes in my favorite denim shirt.

Fortunately, Tom’s obviously sharp claws had not made contact with my skin.  My broken ankle remains the only injury sustained thus far.

Fortunately for him, Tom has become quite handsome so I extend him a great deal of grace – as long as he causes no bodily harm.

16 01, 2017

Thoughts on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day

By |2017-01-16T16:52:35-06:00January 16th, 2017|Make Me Think Monday|0 Comments

President Ronald Reagan signed legislation in 1983 designating today as a federal holiday to honor Martin Luther King, Jr. and his accomplishments.

Dr. King’s nonviolent activism during the civil rights movement changed things for so many. He believed “We may have all come on different ships, but we’re in the same boat now.

Today offers an opportunity to reflect on the past, think about the present, plan for the future, and remember what is truly important.

We are all in the same boat now.

More recently, the 1994 King Holiday and Service Act passed to encourage Americans to transform the King Holiday into a day of citizen action volunteer service.

This quote sums up Dr. King’s attitude on service

Everybody can be great…because anybody can serve. You don’t have to have a college degree to serve. You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love.

As we reflect on Dr. King’s words, I encourage all of us to find a project that forwards King’s vision and participate.  Let today be the start of a year in which we make a positive and peaceful impact in our community and the world.

Let’s make this boat we’re in a better place.

13 01, 2017

All Kinds of Eggs

By |2017-01-12T14:12:26-06:00January 13th, 2017|Miller Farm Friday|1 Comment

A blog by Chicken Wrangler Sara

With our assortment of chickens comes an assortment of eggs.  I am particularly fond of the olive colored eggs.  Not sure which hen is laying them, but they are very pretty,

One day I found this egg in a nest box:

It is not so pretty.  As Brian predicted, there was no yolk and I wonder what happened.

Was this a first attempt?  Then I thought maybe she was just having a bad day.

After all, there are some days that, if I were to lay an egg, which I cannot, it would probably look just as strange.

9 01, 2017

Legacy of Letter Writing

By |2017-01-08T20:25:39-06:00January 9th, 2017|Make Me Think Monday|1 Comment

January 8 through 14 is letter-writing week. The intent of the week long observation is to have more people W-R-I-T-E a letter with a pen or pencil or any other writing instrument.

Handwritten letters offer such a legacy. It’s a shame we don’t value the skill and write more.

Texting and emailing have replace paper and pen as the preferred method of communicating. You can’t deny the convenience and accessibility, but an email or text doesn’t come close to evoking the emotional and visceral response of a lovingly crafted, handwritten letter.

Letters can tell such stories.

Recently, my husband spent days sorting through his family letters and other ephemera. From those old letters, he has been able to reconstruct his family history.

Some of the letters confirmed his memories. Some corrected his memories and others stirred new memories.

From all those letters between his parents , their friends, and his siblings and other documents, he has a timeline that future generations will be able to follow. Plus, they’ll have all the original letters to read.

Maybe you have family letters stashed away some place. Cherish them. Someday organize what you have.

I store family ephemera in vintage suitcases that in turn become side tables or coffee tables.

This year we received more holiday cards than ever before. Many of the cards had letters or handwritten notes. I’ve always been one of those who love to read about what our friends and family are doing. Receiving so many cards this year made my holiday all the merrier.

I’m hoping it’s a trend and others are coming to appreciate letter writing.

This week I encourage you to participate by writing a letter to a friend or family member. Or take the time to teach a child how to write simple thank you cards, letters, invitations, and post cards.

Receiving a handwritten note will put a smile on someone’s face. More importantly, you’ll leave a legacy.

6 01, 2017

The Year of the Rooster

By |2016-12-29T20:11:14-06:00January 6th, 2017|Miller Farm Friday|2 Comments

A Blog by Chicken Wrangler Sara

According to the Chinese Zodiac, the year 2017 is the Year of the Rooster. I normally don’t pay attention to these things, but we have a Chinese student living with us so I am trying to broaden my cultural horizons.

My celebration began early with a gift from a friend. sweaterI love it!

Then Rachel and I were out shopping and saw a Doodle Doo sink strainer. Like the sweater – it was one of kind. sink-strainerNow every time I do the dishes, I am greeted with a cheerful chicken.sinkAll this and 2017 is not even a week old yet! I’m anticipating a wonderful Year of the Rooster.

2 01, 2017

Black-eyed peas and Lucky New Year’s Foods

By |2016-12-30T16:01:30-06:00January 2nd, 2017|Make Me Think Monday|1 Comment

If you’re born-and-raised in the U.S. south, you never skip eating black-eyed peas on New Year’s Day.

It doesn’t matter whether the peas are fresh, frozen, or canned, you must have at least one pea if you want good luck in the coming New Year.

The tradition originated with Union General William Tecumseh Sherman’s march from Atlanta to Savanah, Georgia, in the fall of 1864 during the War of Northern Aggression. (Okay, it’s called the Civil War. I’m using the term preferred by diehard southerners.)

Sherman’s soldiers stripped the Georgia countryside of crops, robbed food stores and killed or carried away livestock as they progressed toward the sea. The troops passed over the field peas, what we call black-eyed peas, thinking the legumes were for animal feed. The plantation owners with untouched fields of black-eyed peas felt lucky to have food for the winter.

There are other foods here in the U.S. and around the world considered “lucky” to eat on New Year’s Day.

Greens. Collards, kale, or chard because they’re green like money.

Grains and noodles. Grains (corn, rice, quinoa, barley) are symbols of long life and abundance.

Ring shaped cakes and pastries. The circular shape suggests coming full circle. In Denmark, you might be served a dramatically tall, ringed cake called Kransekage, a cone-shaped pastry constructed of ever smaller concentric circles.

Pork. Pigs are a worldwide symbol of prosperity and a lucky New Year’s food, especially in Germany. The symbolism dates back to old decks of playing cards, in which the ace was known as die Sau (a sow, or female pig). The expression Schwein haben became a synonym for being lucky.

Fruit. In Spain, Portugal and many Latin American countries, New Year’s revelers eat 12 grapes at midnight— one grape for each stroke of the clock. If one grape is sour, that month might not be so fortunate. Other lucky fruits include pomegranate and figs. Pomegranate seeds suggest prosperity and figs fertility.

If you didn’t try any lucky foods yesterday, you might consider eating a few today just in case. After all, you can’t have too much good luck.

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