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2 11, 2026

Ideas to Reduce the Coming Holiday Season Stress

By |2026-10-30T15:16:08-05:00November 2nd, 2026|Holidays, Make Me Think Monday, Thanksgiving|0 Comments

Halloween was Saturday. Tomorrow is election day. Thanksgiving is on the horizon.

All of which means whatever calm and order exists in our personal world will soon disappear into holiday preparations.

Don’t get me wrong. Holidays are my favorite time of year, except for Halloween, which is too spooky, and the 4th of July, which is too loud with all its fireworks.

As much as I look forward to the holidays, I dread the rush between Halloween and New Year’s Day.

The preparations.

The scheduling.

It can be so overwhelming.

Many years ago, I read an article by Mary E. Pritchard, a psychology professor at Boise State University.

Pritchard suggests the key to a stress-free holiday season lies in an acronym: ADAPT.

*Note: I’ve edited the wording, not the premise.

  • A — Acknowledge that things are going to be a bit crazier than usual this time of year. It’s okay. This too shall pass.
  • D — Don’t sweat the small stuff. Holidays are not about perfection. It really doesn’t matter if one of Rudolph’s ears is crooked in your son’s holiday pageant costume. Focus on getting it done and getting through to the New Year.
  • A — Accept that things will happen that will waylay your best-laid plans and intentions. You’ll likely find yourself relying on Plan B, C, or D this holiday season. That’s okay. (See D above.)
  • P — Pretend you have it all together. As my colleague says, “Fake it ’til you make it.” There’s something behind that. If you pretend to have it all together, you likely will. It’s a fact that smiling can make you happier.
  • T — Troubleshoot. Because things aren’t going to go as planned (see Accept above), make sure that you have a Plan B or C or D to fall back on. That way, you can gracefully slide into Plan B and pretend that’s how you intended things to work anyway.

Most importantly, make sure you take some time for you this holiday season. Find 10 minutes a day to meditate, go for walks a few times a week, watch a funny movie, whatever it takes.

Carving out you-time will help make the busy holidays a little more bearable. It works for me!

26 10, 2026

Why do we carve pumpkins at Halloween?

By |2026-10-13T11:18:03-05:00October 26th, 2026|Holidays, Make Me Think Monday|0 Comments

Vintage Halloween postcard from my collection.

Halloween’s origins date back to the Celts, who lived in Ireland, the United Kingdom, and France 2,000 years ago.

The Celts believed the boundary between the living and the dead blurred the night before their New Year, November 1st.

On October 31st, or Celtic New Year’s Eve, they celebrated Samhain. People lit bonfires and wore costumes to ward off roaming ghosts.

In the eighth century, Pope Gregory III designated November 1st as the time to honor all saints and martyrs, incorporating some of the traditions of Samhain. The evening before became known as All Hallows’ Eve and later Halloween.

The custom of creating jack-o’-lanterns originated from a fascinating Irish myth about an old drunk called “Stingy Jack,” who always tricked his drinking partner into paying.

That little habit got him into big trouble when Stingy Jack invited the Devil to have a drink.

As the story goes, when it came time to pay, true to his name, Stingy Jack talked the Devil into turning himself into a coin which he could use to pay for their drinks. And then the story gets interesting … Jack dies.

Because he made deals with the devil, God won’t let him into heaven.

Because of the deal he made with the devil not to take his soul, he can’t go to hell.

So, Jack roams the dark Halloween night with a burning coal in a carved-out turnip. The Irish refer to his ghostly figure as “Jack of the Lantern,” or “Jack O’Lantern.”

On All Hallow’s Eve, the Irish hollowed out turnips, rutabagas, gourds, potatoes, and beets, then placed a light inside to keep Stingy Jack away and ward off evil spirits.

Turnip Jack-o’-lanterns changed to pumpkin jack-o’-lanterns when Irish immigrants came to America in the 1800’s to escape the Potato Famine. They quickly discovered that pumpkins were bigger and easier to carve out.

And thus began our tradition of carving and lighting pumpkins for Halloween.

19 10, 2026

Using Idioms

By |2026-10-15T09:25:42-05:00October 19th, 2026|Make Me Think Monday|0 Comments

Idioms are defined by Merriam-Webster as:

An expression in the usage of a language that has a meaning that cannot be understood from the combined meanings of its elements (such as up in the air for “undecided”) or in its grammatically atypical use of words (such as give way for “retreat”)

Languages are loaded with idioms, and idioms should not be taken literally. Though global, meaning varies by country and/or culture.

In Finnish, “with long teeth” means you are doing something that you really don’t want to do. The same phrase in French, “to have long teeth,” means you are ambitious.

Groups of people with shared/common interests have their own idioms. Think about these examples from music and theatre:

“It’s not over ‘til the fat lady sings.”

“Break a leg”

“It takes two to tango.”

When I taught English as a Second Language, idioms really challenged my students. Common idioms, like the examples in the chart on the left, were easy to explain.

Others not so much.

When signing idioms for the deaf, I had to understand what the speaker meant.

Usually, it’s easy to pick up the meaning from the context of the conversation or non-verbal gestures.

Sometimes it’s not.

Need help understanding an idiom? This site can help: https://www.usingenglish.com/reference/idioms/

28 09, 2026

Wake up and Read!

By |2026-09-20T16:41:38-05:00September 28th, 2026|Make Me Think Monday|0 Comments

Library Week, which highlights the contributions of our nation’s libraries and librarians, was in April. School, public, special, and academic libraries took part.

Sadly, statistics show fewer people are reading books. Unfortunately, that’s been true since the mid-1950s. According to research, the problems in the 50s were radio, television, and music. The 21st-century issue is social media. Both are really the same problem.

To motivate people to support and use libraries, the American Library Association (the ALA) and the American Book Publishers formed a nonprofit organization in 1954 called the National Book Committee (NBC), which plans a yearly National Library Week.

The very first theme for National Library Week was “Wake Up and Read!”

The focus for Library Card sign-up month is “a library card hits all the right notes.”

Books do entertain, teach, and provide escape. And, most importantly, books are FREE at libraries. All you need is a library card.

The library has always been one of my favorite places. My library card is one of my most prized possessions. I love checking out books or downloading eBook editions. I’m currently reading Karen White’s That Carolina Summer.

I also use Libby, the library app, which allows free downloads to Kindle. Check Libby out here: https://www.overdrive.com/apps/libby. Your library card serves as your account.

Do you have a library card?

21 09, 2026

Suicide-the stigma and prevention

By |2026-09-09T14:29:49-05:00September 21st, 2026|Make Me Think Monday|0 Comments

This is National Suicide Prevention Awareness Month.

Suicide doesn’t really get a lot of press, though it has been a problem throughout human history. Suicide rates are increasing and, in recent years, it has become something of an epidemic.

Did you know…

  • 5.5% of U.S. adults have serious thoughts of suicide each year.
  • Suicide was the eleventh leading cause of death overall in the United States, claiming the lives of over 49,300 people.
  • Suicide was the second leading cause of death among individuals between the ages of 10 and 34 and the fourth leading cause of death among individuals between the ages of 35 and 44.
  • There were over two times as many suicides (49,316) in the United States as there were homicides (22,830).

Until I started researching this topic for this blog, I didn’t. Even more staggering statistics can be found here: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/suicide#part_2558

Suicide is particularly problematic because people with suicidal thoughts feel as though they can’t speak to others due to the stigma surrounding suicide.

“Suicide loss survivors” and friends and families affected by a suicide too often have feelings of shame that prevent them from talking openly. Those feelings of stigma are not unique to suicide but to all forms of mental illness.

In 2020, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline and Veterans Crisis Line phone numbers were combined. The following year, the FCC expanded 988 Lifeline services to text.

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline provides free and confidential emotional support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, across the United States and its territories.

Educating ourselves about mental illness and suicide can be the first step toward reducing the stigma and the statistics.

This Suicide Prevention Month, help spread the word:

Post about Suicide Prevention.

Learn to recognize warning signs.

Walk, run, or fundraise.

Support an organization. Donate or volunteer.

Share the 988 Suicide & Crisis Number.

14 09, 2026

What are your trigger dates?

By |2026-09-03T08:01:09-05:00September 14th, 2026|Make Me Think Monday|0 Comments

Friday was a difficult day for many. It was for me. Even though it’s been twenty-five years since 9-11 happened, my memories are vivid.

Certain personal dates can trigger flashbacks. Other dates, whether we were directly involved or not, do too. These dates can bring on emotions for me.

By far, 9-11 is the most vivid even though it’s been twenty-five years. I sat at home drinking coffee in our sunroom with the Today show on TV. I stared in horror as the second plane hit the towers, with the first building burning in the background.

I couldn’t turn off our TV for days, filled with concern that my Army Reserve husband would have to deploy to fight whatever evil had breached our borders. Selfish, maybe, but a reality for military spouses.

Maybe 9-11 or one of the other listed dates stirred memories for you too.

No matter what date or anniversary triggers you. Let’s claim Virgil’s quote pictured below on the wall at the 9-11 Memorial in New York City. It’s true for any trigger date.

7 09, 2026

Happy Labor Day!

By |2026-09-01T15:06:42-05:00September 7th, 2026|Holidays, Make Me Think Monday|0 Comments

Today is Labor Day, as I’m sure we all know. It seems late. Blame the calendar. This year, September started on a Tuesday, which pushed the first Monday to the 7th.

New York City celebrated the first Labor Day on Tuesday, September 5, 1882, following the plans of the Central Labor Union. The idea spread with the growth of labor organizations, and in 1894, it became an official federal holiday celebrated with parades and speeches.

These days there aren’t many speeches or parades.

Most of us think of Labor Day as the end of summer and celebrate with cookouts instead. We forget what the day is truly about — honoring the workers of America.

Maybe as you celebrate today, pause and say thank you to all the workers.

HAPPY LABOR DAY!

31 08, 2026

Change and Cemeteries

By |2026-08-29T16:21:40-05:00August 31st, 2026|Make Me Think Monday|0 Comments

If you’ve ever been to Ireland, you’ve seen many churchyards like this one. I snapped this picture on a trip in 2015, then used it for a Wednesday blog quote in 2019. Unfortunately, I don’t remember exactly which church this is.

The full quote (not used in the meme) from British politician Harold Wilson reads, “He who rejects change is the architect of decay. The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery.”

It’s a timeless message about embracing change in our lives.

August ends today, which means change for most of us. School started for many. Vacations ended. Gone are carefree days without schedules. Some of us will baulk at that. On the other hand, cooler weather is coming, which will be welcomed after this brutally hot summer.

Resisting changes hinders our ability to adapt and grow. We put ourselves on a path of stagnation and decay. We become like the cemetery pictured above.

Change is the natural flow of life. By adapting, we become the architects of our own personal growth.

For me, Harold Wilson’s quote makes the unpleasant changes to come—which are inevitable anyway—more palatable. Who wants to be stagnant and dead like a cemetery?

16 08, 2026

Words and Wordsmithing

By |2026-08-15T21:17:09-05:00August 16th, 2026|Make Me Think Monday, Writer's Corner, writing, Writing Craft|0 Comments

Parts of speech were taught when I went to school, along with how to diagram sentences to understand their use.

Here’s a quick refresher:

  • Nouns: people, places, things, or ideas.
  • Pronouns: a word used in place of a noun.
  • Verbs: words that express action or being.
  • Adjectives: words that describe nouns or pronouns.
  • Adverbs: words that describe a verb, an adjective, or another adverb.
  • Prepositions: words placed before a noun or pronoun to form a phrase modifying another word in the sentence.
  • Conjunctions: words that join words, phrases, or clauses.
  • Interjections: words used to express emotion.

Until recently, I thought that covered all the word groups. I’ve discovered there are many more words to describe the way we use words. Here are a few:

Retronym: a modifier added to describe what was once its default meaning. Such as:

  • cloth diaper since most diapers now are disposable,
  • snail mail because, you know, email,
  • whole milk because of almond milk and other flavors.
  • regular coffee, plain M&Ms, also because of the added flavors now.

Get the idea? But be cautious: a retronym is not always an adjective/noun combination. It’s a word with a qualifier to refer to the original meaning of the word.

Thus, chocolate chip is not a retronym. Neither is cellular phone. Chocolate and cellular are descriptive.

Tmesis: a new word formed by placing one word in the middle of another.

Not a new concept: George Bernard Shaw used it in “Pygmalion”: Fan-bloody-tastic or abso-blooming-lutely.

Capitonym: a word that changes meaning, and sometimes pronunciation, when capitalized, i.e., mobile meaning moving or Mobile meaning the city in Alabama. Other examples include August, the month, or august, the adjective meaning respected and important.

Bahuvrihi: just saying this correctly should earn you extra credit points. If you want help, try here.

The word is Sanskrit and actually a bahuvrihi itself, which means “much rice” but refers to a rich man. Other examples would be barefoot, graybeard, redhead, or blue-collar/white-collar or old money.

Embolalia:  words or sounds added into speech. It’s the words we use in stammered speech as we arrange our thoughts. Examples: well, but, I guess, um, you know.

Metonym or Metonymy:  using the name of one object or concept for that of another to which it is related, or of which it is a part, i.e., the bottle for strong drink, count heads (or noses) for count people, hoops for basketball, Capitol Hill for the US. Congress.

Mondegreen:  is a mishearing or misinterpretation of a phrase in a way that gives it a new meaning. Mondegreens are generally understood not to be intentional.

Around our family, the song “Elvira” is forever called It’ll Fire Up. Other examples: dawnzer lee light for the mishearing of the “dawn’s early light” lyric of the “Star- Spangled Banner,” or The ants are my friends for “The answer, my friend” in “Blowin’ in the Wind” by Bob Dylan.

Portmanteau:  two or more words are joined to coin a new word, which refers to a single concept, i.e., education + entertainment = edutainment, fan + magazine = fanzine, motor + hotel = motel, spoon + fork= spork 

Slurvian: basically, this is a word that is slurred together.

Examples: d’ja, a slurred form of “did you”; wanna for want to; and the ubiquitous y’all for you all. That last example is considered standard English where I live. 😊

These new parts of speech are fascinating to me as a wordsmith and a word game player.  I’m surprised at how often I hear them used in everyday conversation.  Listen and you might be surprised too.

27 07, 2026

Summer Dog Days

By |2026-07-26T16:15:26-05:00July 27th, 2026|Make Me Think Monday|0 Comments

The dog days of summer are here. It’s hot. It’s humid, and there’s no relief in sight. Where I live, we’re floating in swimming pools and searching for parking spaces beneath shade trees when we must go out.

Mostly we’re hibernating inside with air-conditioning to escape the heat and stay cool. My dog doesn’t move from in front of his fan.

The term “Dog Days” has been used forever to describe the hottest, most sweltering weeks of summer, but summer heat doesn’t really have anything to do with dogs. It comes from astronomy, specifically the Dog Star Sirius, which rises and sets with the Sun in the summertime.

Ancient Egyptians believed that the brightness of the Dog Star Sirius added heat to the sun and produced a long stretch of sultry weather during the forty days beginning July 3 and ending August 11.

The accuracy of those ancient “dog day” dates doesn’t hold today, according to AccuWeather Meteorologist Jim Andrews. Summer dog day dates actually vary based on the rotation of the Earth and whether you live in the northern or southern hemisphere.

Anyone who’s lived in Texas knows that dog days can (and do) begin well before July 3 and extend long after August 11. Afternoon temperatures can soar into the nineties with heat indexes in triple digits. Heat wave warnings are sounded well into September.

Fortunately, dog days don’t last forever, even though it feels like it. And summer can have its charm. It’s a laid-back time. Time to enjoy:

~Swimming

~Going barefoot

~Ice cream cones and frozen slushies.

~Watermelon and fresh veggies.

~ Lazy days

~Sitting under the porch fan and reading

~Sipping Dog-Day Iced Tea

Here’s a great recipe for Dog Days Iced Tea from the Old Farmer’s Almanac

Ingredients

7 bags black tea (English, Earl Grey, etc.)
2 tablespoons granulated sugar
1/2 cup mint leaves and sprigs, divided
2 cups of chilled orange juice
1 orange, sliced crosswise
1 lemon, sliced crosswise
ice cubes

Instructions

  1. Brew a strong tea in about 10 cups of water. While still hot, add sugar and about a dozen mint leaves. Let cool.

  2. Remove tea bags and mint; then add orange juice, fruit slices, and ice.

  3. Serve over more ice, garnish with fresh mint sprigs, and add a fruit slice or two to each glass.

Mostly remember: Fall is coming! This heat will pass…

Unless you live in Texas. Here we’ll be hot until November, maybe December, but we don’t have snow and ice to deal with. 😉

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