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21 08, 2025

We have a guest author!

By |2025-08-16T09:00:14-05:00August 21st, 2025|Guest author, Guest blogger|2 Comments

Today, we welcome my writer friend from France.  J. Arlene Culiner is here to talk about story settings and her novel, The Unpredictable Colors of Love

Meet Ms. Culiner ~ Writer, social critical artist, and impenitent teller of tall tales

Arlene was born in New York and raised in Toronto. She has crossed much of Europe on foot, has lived in a mud house on the Great Hungarian Plain, in a Bavarian castle, a Turkish cave dwelling, a haunted house on the English moors, and a Dutch canal. She now resides in a 400-year-old former inn in a French village of no interest where, much to local dismay, she protects spiders, snakes, and weeds. Observing people in cafes, in their homes, on trains, or in the streets, she eavesdrops on all private conversations and delights in hearing any nasty, funny, ridiculous, sad, romantic, or boastful story. And when she can’t uncover really salacious gossip, she makes it up.

Author Websites http://www.j-arleneculiner.com

Author links: https://linktr.ee/j.arleneculiner

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Thank you, Judythe, for inviting me to be on your blog and present The Unpredictable Colors of Love.

I love setting my romances in the out-of-the-way places I’ve lived. The three books in my Blake’s Folly Romance series take place in a Nevada semi-ghost town where roads are unpaved ruts, and the doors of abandoned shacks slap in the endless wind. Felicity’s Power is set in an isolated cove on the California coast, and in my romantic suspense, The Turkish Affair, I present an archaeological site in central Turkey where theft is rife and the police are untrustworthy.

Yet, somehow, I’ve avoided writing about the country where I now live: France. Is it because the France portrayed in so many romances is nothing like the real country? Because people want fantasy more than reality? They want cafés where people engage in deep philosophical conversations and beret-wearing men with baguettes under their arm pass by on creaking bicycles.

In that mythical France, food is always wonderful, and Art is important to all.

In reality, people in cafés talk about football, television, or social media. Those beret men are long gone, and food is often — like elsewhere — created industrially, then frozen and shipped to restaurants where it’s heated up in a microwave oven. As for Art…

Fine. What would happen if I wrote a romance set in an artist’s retreat in the real France? If I describe what is actually going on in the countryside, add in a château that, like so many, was almost doomed to disappear?

If I do all that, would it still be a good setting for a romance?

Of course, it would. Thus: The Unpredictable Colors of Love,

Callie Patterson, an unsuccessful artist, hopes that a relationship with the irresistible and magnetic Nicholas Trier will pave the way to success. She follows him to France, where, in a magnificent château, he holds his artists’ retreats. But famous men surround themselves with hangers-on and demand complete loyalty.

Callie soon finds herself far more attracted to Michel Alexandre, the estate gardener, who loves and protects trees and every living creature. But if she wants to make a name for herself, she’ll have to choose Nicholas and his world.

Except nothing is quite the way it seems, and perhaps success isn’t the most important thing, after all.

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Excerpt from The Unpredictable Colors of Love

Callie dropped the backpack filled with art supplies and, uninvited, sat down on the soggy ground not far from where Michel was digging. She didn’t even own a houseplant, but a banal conversation about twigs and saplings was what she craved at the moment. “Okay, tell me why there isn’t a hedge here now.”
“Because, years ago, the farmer ripped out all the hedges to have larger fields for his agricultural machinery. Now we’re bringing back a balanced environment.”
“You’re not planning to replace every single hedge on your own, are you?”
“Of course not,” he scoffed. Picking up a small spade, he loosened another patch of earth. “There are thousands of trees and shrubs to replant, and that would be an impossible task for only one person.” With gentle fingers, he spread the delicate roots of a tiny shrub, tucked it into place in the little hole, then tamped down the moist soil with his palm. Reached for another, and then another.
She watched silently as he planted, and strangely enough, it was almost a sensual sight. His hands were broad, strong, and deeply tanned from working outdoors; his long fingers were beautifully shaped. And under that denim shirt of his, there was the alluring suggestion of tight sinew and warm, fragrant skin. Did she still find him bear-like? No, not exactly. Something more, something…
           “A penny for your thoughts.” Michel was watching her with those disconcerting eyes of his, very dark, with heavy lids and thick lashes.
She felt the blush as it traveled upward, flooding her neck, her face. He hadn’t caught what she had been thinking, had he? Perhaps he had. Surely, he’d seen how her gaze had slipped over his hands, his arms, his chest, and shoulders. How incredibly humiliating! What vaguely plausible answer could she give? “Oh…just remembering something.”
“Ah.” Eyebrows raised in overt amusement, he smirked—rather cockily—then went back to working on the next hole, the next shrub.

BUY LINKS:

https://www.amazon.com/Unpredictable-Colors-Love-Arlene-Culiner-ebook/dp/B0DCZWF836

https://books2read.com/TheUnpredictableColorsOfLove

Book Trailer: https://youtu.be/27nE-cCHNqM

12 08, 2025

Fall’s Coming!

By |2025-08-11T15:21:04-05:00August 12th, 2025|A Writer's Life|1 Comment

August 2025 ends soon. Summer’s over, and school has started. I saw the yellow buses on the road this morning.

It’s been a hot summer. I’m more than ready. Officially, September 1 marks the beginning of the meteorological fall season, and the autumnal equinox occurs on September 22, 2025. Our days will be shorter and cooler.

Every year at the end of August, this one-time schoolteacher becomes a little nostalgic. Not that I’d like to be back teaching in a classroom again. I’m quite content to be home writing my stories and publishing books.

Once the back-to-school chatter begins, I can’t stop a part of me from missing the excitement of setting up my classroom and seeing the eager young faces on the first day of school.

I swallow the lump of memories in my throat whenever I spot a school bus and pause to send up a prayer for a “really good year” for the bus driver, the kids, and the teacher waiting in their classroom.

Back-to-school this year meant two great-grandchildren headed off to big school. One to Pre-K and the other to Kindergarten. Seems only yesterday I watched their mother, my granddaughter, go off to big school.

The end of August signals more than back to school, though. It’s the freshness of new beginnings.

A time of changes.

A mid-year New Year’s Day.

I’m looking forward to the new season. What about you?

25 06, 2025

Word Magic

By |2025-06-12T07:43:12-05:00June 25th, 2025|#Wednesdaythoughts, Wednesday Words of Wisdom, Writing Craft|1 Comment

Webster defines word magic as magic involving the use of words in a manner determined by a belief that the very act of uttering a word summons or directly affects the person or thing that the word refers to.

Christopher Vogler (one of my very favorite writing teachers) describes word magic like this:

“Many cultures believed the letters of their alphabets were far more than just symbols for communication, recording transactions, or recalling history. They believed letters were powerful, magical symbols that could be used to cast spells and predict the future. The Norse runes and the Hebrew alphabet are simple letters for spelling words, but also deep symbols of cosmic significance.”

Chris goes further to say, “When you spell a word correctly, you are in effect casting a spell, charging these abstract, arbitrary symbols with meaning and power.”

I’m not sure I have to worry about any words I write casting spells. AI spell-checker can’t even come up with choices for what I’ve typed most of the time.

I do believe, however, that once the words form into sentences and sentences into paragraphs, another magic occurs – story magic. Vogler calls it The Hero’s Journey, a mystical path that readers sense on some level. Storytellers have the incredible ability to cast a spell and transport readers into an imaginary world with their word pictures. Don’t you feel a sense of magic when you read or hear some stories?

But there’s also another aspect of word magic, too.

Consider the adage, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me.” As much as we might want or wish otherwise, the truth is that words do have the power to hurt or heal us.

Whenever we speak, we should choose words carefully. And, for sure, watch what we post on social media.

Consider this quote from Pearl Strachan Hurd, a British politician in the 1930s whose sole legacy is this quote, which emphasizes the destructive power language can have.

Atom bombs conjure images of death, violence, and war. Not a pretty picture at all.

As writers and storytellers, like the shamans or medicine men and women of ancient cultures, we should recognize the incredible power we have with our words.

19 06, 2025

Are you celebrating Juneteenth?

By |2025-06-18T10:07:22-05:00June 19th, 2025|Holidays|1 Comment

Today is Juneteenth, short for “June Nineteenth.” Also known as “Jubilee Day,” “Black Independence Day,” and “Freedom Day.

It may be new to you if you’ve never lived in Texas.

Here, the day has been celebrated since June 19, 1865 — two and a half years after the Emancipation Proclamation was signed, when 2,000 federal troops arrived in Galveston, Texas, to take control of the state and enforce the emancipation of all enslaved people. Learn more about the history HERE.

Since that date, community gatherings filled with food, music, and fellowship have been held in Texas.

On June 17, 2021, President Biden’s proclamation made Juneteenth a federal holiday. Most national banks, the United States Postal Service, and all nonessential federal, state, and city government offices will be closed. Plus, the stock market will also be closed for the holiday.

How will you be celebrating?

26 05, 2025

Thoughts for Memorial Day 2025

By |2025-05-26T09:18:26-05:00May 26th, 2025|Holidays|0 Comments

Today is Memorial Day, the day when we recognize all those who gave the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy.

It is a three-day weekend to honor and mourn those U.S. military personnel who knew the risks, accepted the odds, and marched onward anyway.

Memorial Day also signals the unofficial start of summer. Along with the hot dogs, hamburgers, and swimming associated with our celebrations, let’s ponder these quotes.

Then pause for a moment of silence to remember their sacrifices and the families who live without them.

• “It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced.” — Abraham Lincoln, Gettysburg Address

• “Those who have long enjoyed such privileges as we enjoy forget in time that men have died to win them.” — Franklin D. Roosevelt

• “Our flag does not fly because the wind moves it. It flies with the last breath of each soldier who died protecting it.” — Unknown

• “As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter the words, but to live by them.” — John F. Kennedy

 

17 03, 2025

Time to Celebrate St. Patrick

By |2025-03-16T10:06:03-05:00March 17th, 2025|Holidays|0 Comments

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There’ll be parades, dancing, special foods, and a whole lot of green here in the United States, whether you have an Irish heritage or not.

Historically, the day was mostly a religious celebration in Ireland.

You wore your homemade St. Patrick’s Day badge or muddy shamrock you dug and went to Mass to sing Hail Glorious St. Patrick. Believe it or not, the pubs were closed on March 17 until the 1970s.

Nowadays, small local villages have parades and festivals with traditional music, sean nós singing and dancing, and a bit of horse racing. Dublin, Cork, Galway, and Limerick have large parades.

One thing’s sure: you’d never ever hear the day called Patty’s Day or St. Pat’s Day in Ireland. It’s Paddy’s Day or St Patrick’s Day.

Did you know these other facts about the patron saint of Ireland?

He was not Irish but British.

Born in Roman Britain in the fourth century, he was kidnapped by Irish raiders as a teen. They took him to Ireland to work as a shepherd. He escaped and returned to Britain. He spent the next 15 or so years in a monastery, preparing for his missionary work. Pope Celestine I consecrated St. Patrick as Bishop of the Irish around 431.

He was never canonized by the Roman Catholic church.

During the Church’s first millennium, most saints received their title if they were martyrs or were counted to be extraordinarily holy. St. Patrick was the latter. He converted many from paganism and became known as the Apostle of Ireland and made the patron saint of the isle.

His familiarity with the Irish language and culture made the Irish receptive to his teachings because he took familiar Celtic symbols and Christianized them.

Many legends and symbols are attributed to St. Patrick.

He combined the Irish pagan symbol of the sun with the Christian cross, creating the Celtic cross, the icon of Ireland and Irish faith.

He explained the trinity to the Irish pagans with the shamrock’s three leaves. Though there’s no proof he ever did this, the shamrock metaphor remains strong in Irish Christianity.

Allegedly, when snakes attacked him during a 40-day fast, he chased them to the sea. Ireland doesn’t have snakes, so this is a total legend. More likely, he used snakes as a metaphor for the evil Druids and pagans.

He’s said to have climbed Croagh Patrick, County Mayo, and fasted at the summit for the forty days of Lent. True or not, thousands of pilgrims trek to Croagh Patrick’s top yearly.

I’ve climbed Croagh Patrick, but only to the statue, not the summit.

Beannachtaí na Féile Pádraig ort!

Happy St Patricks Day

13 02, 2025

Why Valentine’s Day?

By |2025-02-13T08:20:34-06:00February 13th, 2025|Holidays, Valentine's Day|3 Comments

February 14 is second only to Christmas for gift-giving and sweet treats. A day for romantic dinners and spending time with loved ones. Sending cards to those we love.

Where did the tradition begin? Historians can’t establish the exact origin but do trace how traditions have evolved over the years.

Earliest traditions

According to History.com, the holiday’s origin predates Christianity with the ancient pagan festival of Lupercalia, a Roman festival of feasting and pairing off in partners celebrated in the middle of February.

During Lupercalia, the hide of a sacrificed goat would be cut into strips, dipped in blood, and slapped around women in the belief the ritual would make the women more fertile in the coming year. That festival was outlawed in the 5th century when Pope Gelasius declared February 14 as St. Valentine’s Day.

Who was Saint Valentine?

The most accepted account of St. Valentine says he was a priest arrested for defying a Roman decree that forbade soldiers from marrying and then executed for continuing to wed lovers in secret.

The problem is, according to NPR, Emperor Claudius II of Rome executed two different men named Valentine on February 14 in two different years.

History.com contends St. Valentine was an imprisoned priest who fell in love with one of his visitors and wrote letters to her signing off with “From your Valentine.”

Both accounts have romantic undertones unfortunately neither can be officially verified.

Add in the fact that the Catholic Church recognizes multiple priests named Valentine, and all we can say with confidence is Valentine’s Day was named for a martyred priest.

From honoring a priest to current traditions

Jack B. Oruch, an English professor, says our modern-day traditions are thanks to the 14th-century English poet Geoffrey Chaucer, who first associated St Valentine with romantic love.  Oruch concluded that before Chaucer’s “The Parlement of Foules” and “The Complaint of Mars” there was no significant written record linking romantic tradition to St. Valentine’s Day.

By the mid-18th century, giving small tokens and handmade notes to friends and lovers on Valentine’s Day became common practice.

The Industrial Revolution of the 19th century enabled printed Valentine’s Day cards. Then in 1913, Hallmark Cards began mass-producing Valentines, and the rest is history.

National Retail Federation predicts a record $27.5 billion will be spent on Valentine’s Day this year. The amount is up from last year’s $25.8 billion. Astonishing, isn’t it?

No fancy retail for our Valentine’s celebration around my house. A hug and an “I love you” say Happy Valentine’s Day the best.

What are your plans?

25 12, 2024

Happy Holiday!

By |2024-12-23T16:44:22-06:00December 25th, 2024|Christmas, Holidays|2 Comments

Popping in with our favorite Irish Christmas Blessing. Whatever you celebrate, Solstice, Hanukkah, or Christmas, Chicken Wrangler Sara and I hope you have a happy one!

Look for us back on a limited basis in the new year.

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