It’s hard to be thankful when all around us is hurt and pain and disappointment and anger. It is 2020 and finding things to be thankful for seems impossible.
Gratitude doesn’t make sense, but it’s a needed discipline to push off negativity.
Being grateful is a choice. It’s not so simple to change our choices.
Developing an attitude of gratitude can take time and effort. One way to begin that change is to write a daily gratitude list.
I’m not saying it will be easy. On those Judith Viorst terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days, it might seem impossible. A daily gratitude list can help with an attitude adjustment.
How do you start a daily gratitude list? What to put on your list? Here are some suggestions:
- Write out a list of things you’re thankful for. The kinesthetic experience of tangibly writing is valuable for two reasons:
- The physical act imprints a feeling of gratitude at the cellular level.
- Handwriting is a slow process and provides more time for contemplation.
- Begin with two or three at first and work your way up to whatever number makes you feel comfortable.
- Chose simple things to put on your list. You woke up. In a warm place. The sunrise/sunset. There is so much to be thankful for, if we only have eyes to see.
Most important, you may have to pretend at first. So, fake it, if necessary, until the habit is established.
As your list making becomes habit, you’ll discover two things:
- Gratitude is all around.
- Gratitude grows the more you use it.