The Pattern of 3

2 08, 2024

Boomerang Earring

By |2024-08-01T08:52:20-05:00August 2nd, 2024|Friday on the Miller Farm, Miller Farm Friday|0 Comments

A Blog by Chicken Wrangler Sara


I read somewhere that wearing large dangly earrings makes you look 10 lbs. lighter. I have since expanded my collection of large dangly earrings.

The problem is that those that simply hang from a curved wire sometimes fall out. This has happened several times leaving me with random single earrings.

I have a lot of eighth-note dangly earrings that I wear often. I wore them to the children’s symphony last year and discovered one was missing when I got home.

I was very sad.

Then a few weeks later, the missing earring appeared behind the door of our living room.

I was thrilled.

Just recently, the eighth note earring went missing again. I was very sad again. I left the lone earring on the dining table. While vacuuming. the kitchen this week, I discovered……. the missing earring!!!!

I could not believe it! I just knew the earring was gone forever.

I have started putting a small plastic back on the end of the wire to keep the earrings from falling off.

I don’t want to test Judythe Morgan‘s “The Pattern of 3”  blog theory and count on finding the lost earring a third time!

29 07, 2024

The Pattern of 3

By |2024-07-28T12:25:18-05:00July 29th, 2024|Make Me Think Monday|1 Comment

What is it with the number three?

Why do patterns of three appear in so many ways?

Is it mystical, magical, or coincidental?

According to numerology, the number 3 is a whirlwind of expressiveness, joy, and boundless, childlike imagination.

My grandmother, who was not into numerology, firmly believed in patterns of threes. If there were two accidents, she went on alert waiting for the third. Good things can happen in 3s too according to her.

In a recent blog, James Scott Bell discussed how celebrity deaths seem to come in threes. He cited Shannon Doherty, Richard Simmons, and Shelley Duvall who died within days of each other this year. Ed McMahon (Johnny Carson’s sidekick) died, a couple of days later, Farrah Fawcett (Charlie’s Angels star) then Michael Jackson “moonwalked beyond the veil” in 2009.

Psychologists attribute these connections to “confirmation bias.” When we look for something, we “find” it in questionable details.

My grandmother’s superstition came mostly from her mystical Irish heritage, but when you look, you do find patterns of threes everywhere.

Mind, body, spirit

Born, live, die

Hear no evil, speak no evil, see no evil

The Father, Son, and the Holy Ghost

Three Wise Men

Ready, set, go

ID, Ego, Superego

Three wishes

Three strikes and you’re out.

Liquid, ice, vapor

3 months in a climate season

What about stories and movies:

3’s Company (TV Show)

Goldilocks and the Three Bears

Three Blind Mice

Three Little Pigs (or Kittens)

Three Bears

Three Stooges

Three Billy Goats Gruff

Three Coins in the Fountain (Movie)

Or these well-known three-part quotes:

“Citius, Altius, Fortius” (Olympic motto)

“Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness

“wine, women and song”

“truth, justice, and the American way”

“Government of the people, by the people, for the people”

Because Aristotle observed patterns of three, he developed his three-act structure – Beginning, middle, end –  for story plotting.  Writers use it today. As a reader you may or may not be aware of the structure unless that structure is missing then the story won’t flow.

Writers use the Rule of Three. That’s why sentences like the one in the opening of this blog— Is it mystical, magical, or coincidental? (adjective triplets in phrases) are found.

The smallest number of elements needed to create a pattern is three. Those patterns in turn inform, inspire, or amuse. Watch for patterns of 3. You’ll find one I’m sure.

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